
Being forced is not always bad. Think about it, if we were not forced we wouldn’t be where we are today. It takes a lot of forcing to form a huge movement. You have to encourage people to agree with your views so that they can be receptive to your cause.
You do not want to blindly lead people, to some summit, for if you do you won’t have equal participation. No one to converse with, you will be all alone, we are social animals. We crave socialization. So do not force your way in, because you may be forced out.